Comments on: Tuffy Luv Eats Your Face With Love http://www.collegecandy.com/other-stories/7085 Thu, 20 Nov 2008 13:45:30 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.1 By: help http://www.collegecandy.com/other-stories/7085#comment-70216 help Sun, 17 Feb 2008 21:56:13 +0000 http://www.collegecandy.com/other-stories/7085#comment-70216 Okay so I have a dilemma and I have been offered a LOT of advice on it but none of it seems to be the right fit for me. Maybe you can offer some third party advice that is more direct. There is a boy I currently like. Problems: 1) He just got out of a long term relationship. - Attempting to make a move now would just be pointless as he probably isn't looking to jump into another relationship. 2) He lives in my dorm. - Dormcest: Yay or Nay 3) We are good friends. - I fear I am in the friendzone. 4) I am lazy/shy. - I want him to make the first move but I think if I wait to long he might find someone else. Any advice you can offer would be great. Okay so I have a dilemma and I have been offered a LOT of advice on it but none of it seems to be the right fit for me. Maybe you can offer some third party advice that is more direct.

There is a boy I currently like. Problems:
1) He just got out of a long term relationship. - Attempting to make a move now would just be pointless as he probably isn’t looking to jump into another relationship.
2) He lives in my dorm. - Dormcest: Yay or Nay
3) We are good friends. - I fear I am in the friendzone.
4) I am lazy/shy. - I want him to make the first move but I think if I wait to long he might find someone else.

Any advice you can offer would be great.

]]> By: andrea http://www.collegecandy.com/other-stories/7085#comment-70225 andrea Mon, 18 Feb 2008 01:25:48 +0000 http://www.collegecandy.com/other-stories/7085#comment-70225 So like lets see if you can answer this one. Im pretty much a smart girl, so i know what my problem is. The only thing is i am not quite sure if i can ever get rid of it. I am 22 years old and i have no escape in college. I have decent grades and all i think thats it. I have no real friends, so i find myself utterly alone. Im introverted so theres no chance to just act out in public. Activities by myself are just not appealing(eg.hobbies). Guys are also lost cause, i cannot seem to find one & when i do find one to be friends with, all they want is to get with me. I find myself accepting this but im not sure i want to. How would i change this? It hurts to be alone. So like lets see if you can answer this one. Im pretty much a smart girl, so i know what my problem is. The only thing is i am not quite sure if i can ever get rid of it. I am 22 years old and i have no escape in college. I have decent grades and all i think thats it. I have no real friends, so i find myself utterly alone. Im introverted so theres no chance to just act out in public. Activities by myself are just not appealing(eg.hobbies). Guys are also lost cause, i cannot seem to find one & when i do find one to be friends with, all they want is to get with me.
I find myself accepting this but im not sure i want to. How would i change this? It hurts to be alone.

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