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I know full-well what makes a man not-so-good in bed. I know it when I can’t sit comfortably the next day, or when I want to fall asleep during the most boring sex of all time. And I definitely knew it that time the dude licked me from my mouth to my ear..and left a nice puddle of saliva in my hair.
But I have no idea what makes a woman bad in bed. Can a woman be bad in bed? Could I be bad in bed? I started to develop a complex after a male friend of mine told me he had faked orgasms…on multiple occassions! Guys fake orgasms? Could a guy have been faking with me?
OMG! WHAT IF I AM BAD?!
I turned to my male advisor for the answers. (Note: I did try and convince him that it was “my friend” who was worried, but we all know it was neurotic, self-conscious me.)
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I have a theory that no woman has ever wanted to have sex ever, with a man that she could land.
Men that would never fuck them, they want to fuck, but only because subconsciously they know the opportunity will never present itself.
I don’t want you to make me ‘feel’ like your having a good time. For fucks sake, if your not having a good time then why are you letting my have sex with you.
huh-hate to break it to ya, but your theory is totally incorrect.
and some women? can land a LOT of men.
I definitely agree with this article on all points. Sex is about pleasure for both people, not fancy moves. It’s all about being completely relaxed, doing what feels good and being in tune to what the other person is feeling and how they are reacting to everything.
I agree with christy. In fact, I can’t even climax if I can’t get you off once or twice. So no faking, be as real as possible.
Non & verbal communication is key. If you have a dude with a big ego, then make your wants not commands but suggestions. And when he gets it right and dead on, then make absolutely sure he gets the message. Next time would be even better.
I’m the competitive type in bed. Whereas I like to see talent & performance after an hour and a half.
I consider the first stage just getting to know each other’s body for what we enjoy the most. It helps me to close my eyes and listen while I touch babygirl a certain way. Or I would gaze at her facial expressions, her chest’s breathing pattern, the tightening and relaxing of her stomach, hands and toes to tell me how well I’m doing. So yes, laying there looking dead and still doesn’t help me.
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