Comments on: The Single Life: Does Anyone Truly Want It? http://www.collegecandy.com/sex/6540 Wed, 3 Dec 2008 00:42:31 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.1 By: molly http://www.collegecandy.com/sex/6540#comment-69131 molly Wed, 09 Jan 2008 02:24:41 +0000 http://www.collegecandy.com/sex/6540#comment-69131 Something about the flow of this article was soooo sex and the city. I love it1 And I agree. Something about the flow of this article was soooo sex and the city. I love it1 And I agree.

]]> By: Angela http://www.collegecandy.com/sex/6540#comment-69132 Angela Wed, 09 Jan 2008 04:58:35 +0000 http://www.collegecandy.com/sex/6540#comment-69132 I feel the same way. But most of the time I liked being single or the past 2 years, but of course I would have those lonely periods where all your friends seem to pair-off. But what I've realized is that there's nothing wrong with being single for a while and trying to figure yourself out, and if the right guy comes along, why not? Don't pass up an opportunity for a great relationship just because you're embraced singlehood. I feel the same way. But most of the time I liked being single or the past 2 years, but of course I would have those lonely periods where all your friends seem to pair-off. But what I’ve realized is that there’s nothing wrong with being single for a while and trying to figure yourself out, and if the right guy comes along, why not? Don’t pass up an opportunity for a great relationship just because you’re embraced singlehood.

]]> By: nude0007 http://www.collegecandy.com/sex/6540#comment-70029 nude0007 Sun, 10 Feb 2008 16:46:03 +0000 http://www.collegecandy.com/sex/6540#comment-70029 everyone wants to be with someone. it is great to be loved. the problem is that society has eroneously taught us (at least in the last 100 years) that marriage is monogamous. the truth is that humans are geared to want many sexual partners, but it doesn't have to destroy a marriage. (or "serous" relationship) single or taken, enjoy life! everyone wants to be with someone. it is great to be loved. the problem is that society has eroneously taught us (at least in the last 100 years) that marriage is monogamous. the truth is that humans are geared to want many sexual partners, but it doesn’t have to destroy a marriage. (or “serous” relationship)

single or taken, enjoy life!

]]> By: Kate http://www.collegecandy.com/sex/6540#comment-70853 Kate Thu, 06 Mar 2008 23:23:51 +0000 http://www.collegecandy.com/sex/6540#comment-70853 Being single is a good time to figure things out about yourself. I think most of us can all agree that bumping around from relationship to relationship, a woman can really lose her identity because she's always attached to someone else. Yea, if the right guy comes along you're gonna go for it, but the right guy isn't going to come along time after time after time. Being single is a good time to figure things out about yourself. I think most of us can all agree that bumping around from relationship to relationship, a woman can really lose her identity because she’s always attached to someone else. Yea, if the right guy comes along you’re gonna go for it, but the right guy isn’t going to come along time after time after time.

]]> By: Harmonic http://www.collegecandy.com/sex/6540#comment-75492 Harmonic Sun, 29 Jun 2008 07:10:29 +0000 http://www.collegecandy.com/sex/6540#comment-75492 response to nude0007: Society has erroneously taught us (at least in the last 100 years) that marriage is monogamous? I don't think so. The idea of one man and one woman committing to each other for life goes back thousands of years. We are designed for trust and loyalty. The problem is when we date or marry someone because We want them to fulfill OUR needs, and if one person doesn't do that we find another and another until WE feel like OUR needs are met. This is a very selfish way to relate to others. Marriage is about putting the other person ahead of your needs and serving them. If both people serve the other then their needs are met in a healthy way. Marriage is supposed to help us grow and learn to focus on others and less on ourselves. Just my humble belief. response to nude0007:
Society has erroneously taught us (at least in the last 100 years) that marriage is monogamous? I don’t think so. The idea of one man and one woman committing to each other for life goes back thousands of years. We are designed for trust and loyalty. The problem is when we date or marry someone because We want them to fulfill OUR needs, and if one person doesn’t do that we find another and another until WE feel like OUR needs are met. This is a very selfish way to relate to others. Marriage is about putting the other person ahead of your needs and serving them. If both people serve the other then their needs are met in a healthy way. Marriage is supposed to help us grow and learn to focus on others and less on ourselves. Just my humble belief.

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