Comments on: When Swapping Spit Sucks

By: michael

michael — Tue, 06 May 2008 15:57:25 +0000

i think the most misunderstood thing, is that most guys really enjoy criticism, as long as it is positive and constructive and not just “geese, do you ever swallow your spit or just let it all flow out?!!”
The point is there isn’t a kissing 101, and if there was, we WOULD all have taken it. So let us know what you like, what you want, and I’m sure he will make the changes. If he doesn’t, then he doesn’t deserve you.
So stop complaining, and start critiquing!
but be prepared for him to offer some tips too!

By: zoe

zoe — Tue, 06 May 2008 16:54:32 +0000

this may sound overly cheesy, but i really think kissing is important and shows whether or not you have a connection to that person. i never thought this untill i looked back like you and worked out which of the guys id kissed i had actually enjoyed and the answer was staring me in the face: guys that were all wrong for me and with-whom the relationship went nowhere were the (in my opinion) bad kissers, ive never actually felt a deep connection with someone who didnt blow my mind with their kisses. (like my current boyfriend :P)

By: Toni

Toni — Tue, 06 May 2008 17:02:02 +0000

How can you date someone for 2 years and not tell them that they suck at kissing? I had a boyfriend who slobbered a lot and told him when he didnt fix it I dumbed him. A man is not “the one” if he cant kiss. Although I have not had too many problems with finding a good kisser. My ex husband and my current boyfriend are both amazing kissers!
I agree with Zoe Kissing does show how much of a connection you have with someone. If you have a guy you feel sucks at kissing then you have no connection plain and simple.

By: Mal

Mal — Tue, 06 May 2008 18:58:24 +0000

Has anyone ever run across a guy who just plain doesnt really like to kiss? thats a bad sign for sure…. i can say that ive experienced that whole “enveloping of the mouth” thing though. Instead of being romantic i feel like im gonna suffocate… What about guys who cant take critism very well?

By: Jim the Cynic

Jim the Cynic — Thu, 15 May 2008 17:55:50 +0000

I learned to kiss from a very sweet, and extraordinarily attractive young lady when I was of the advanced age of 17. Whilst I was a very shy and inexperienced lad, said young lady was quite a bit more experienced even though a few years younger.

So when she noticed my nervousness and awkwardness at kissing (she really did want make-out with me, and wanted me to do it right) she told me very sweetly to kiss her the way that I wanted to be kissed. She then demonstrated some of the most wonderful kissing techniques, some of which I emulated, some of which I ignored, and others which I used as an idea for something a little different.

I learned a valuable lesson that night. Do what you’d like done to you. Kiss with empathy. Connect with your partner with something other than your lips first. Then, kissing can be wonderful.

So for you who stuck it out with a BF for 2 years hating the way he kissed… why ever keep him for a BF??? Get some one who Gets You. Get it?

By: Brian

Brian — Tue, 27 May 2008 20:28:59 +0000

I think the biggest problem with “anything, kissing, sex, etc.. is communication.. if you really want to get better kisses you should def say something about it to your bf. no ones perfect at everyting, and who knows maybe he will open up and tell you somthing that bothers him about you. kill 2 birsd with one stone.. Communicate if you want it to work : )