Yep. I’ve done it. And that’s all the detail I’m willing to disclose.

But let’s talk about this precarious position for a second because yea, it feels pretty good, but it’s also a tough one to maneuver. First of all, you’ve got placement to consider — if you aren’t careful, someone could get a knee or foot in the face and that’s a real mood killer. So being smooth is pretty major.

Once you’ve made it down there successfully, you’re faced with a penis (which can be uncomfortable and/or scary). And as things get going you have to concentrate on getting him off while he’s trying to, for lack of a better/cooler word, pleasure you. Honestly, that’s hard to do when you’re probably a little self-conscious that you’re both getting so up-close-and-personal, not to mention trying to enjoy what’s happening.

To make things a little easier here are some tips (hey, I’m no expert, I’m just going by what I’ve “heard“).

1. Use Your Hands. It’s really tiring just using your mouth. So give yourself a break and get your hands in there.

2. Take Turns. This is the best way to solve the problem of forgetting about him while you’re enjoying yourself a lot. Just lie back and let him give you an explosive orgasm. Then reciprocate.

3. Use Pillows. It’s really easy to get a stiff neck so propping your head and his with a pillow can help the situation.

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