Dear Tuffy,
Okay so I have a dilemma and I have been offered a LOT of advice on it but none of it seems to be the right fit for me. Maybe you can offer some third party advice that is more direct.

There is a boy I currently like. Problems:
1) He just got out of a long term relationship. - Attempting to make a move now would just be pointless as he probably isn’t looking to jump into another relationship.
2) He lives in my dorm. - Dormcest: Yay or Nay
3) We are good friends. - I fear I am in the friendzone.
4) I am lazy/shy. - I want him to make the first move but I think if I wait to long he might find someone else.

Any advice you can offer would be great.
-Help

Dear Help,

I am so glad you asked about this because this is a question near and dear to my poor twisted heart.

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