How many times have you been walking down the street with a girl friend only to have some guy scream, “MAKEOUT!!!”? How many times have you been minding your own business when you see 2 girls making out at the bar for attention?How many times have you wondered why guys are so obsessed with the idea of 2 girls making out?

I know that guys tend to let their peens do all the thinking, but I still just never understand why guys are so willing to do just about anything if a girl will kiss another girl. What is the point? How does that benefit the guy? Why don’t they just try to kiss the girl themselves?! I turned to my favorite male to give me the answers. Read More »

Here at CC, our opinions on love, sex and relationships cover pretty much the whole spectrum of ideals (and according to the fantastic discussions amongst commentors, so do yours, lovely readers). However I think we can all agree that long distance relationships are difficult.

Whether you are a serial LDD-er (long distance dater, obvs) or this is your first case of separation anxiety, remember that a summer break is not a relationship death sentence, but more of a Paris-esque mini lockdown with time off for good behavior!

The most important aspect of a long distance relationship (as in any other healthy one) is communication. Beyond the obvious (calling, texting, IMing), it’s important to create an open channel of expression that allows you both to clearly explain your thoughts, feelings and, most importantly, expectations throughout this relationship vacation (not the Speidi version).

Before you two lovebirds separate, talk about the impending geographical issue. Discuss how you’re feeling about it (nervous? anxious? scared?) and why. Bring up your thoughts on the social scene and parties. I’m not a believer in strict rules governing your right to party (thank you, Beastie Boys) but your definition of a good time might be quite different from his (Is it ok to flirt shamelessly but innocently for free drinks? Are you cool with a night at the strip club with his boys?). By talking about problems like wandering eyes or drifting apart before they happen, you can easily avoid them. And by establishing a sitch where you can freely talk about stuff like that will help you stay secure in your union. Read More »

Letting guys pay for your drinks is just one of the perks of being a girl, right? Recently, this has become a subject of heated debate between my girl and guy friends.

Personally, I never expect a guy to pay for me, whether we are on a first date, in a serious relationship, casually hanging out, or just meeting for the first time. In fact, when he pays for too many things too readily, it makes me uncomfortable. But if I am flirting with someone at a bar and he offers me a drink, am I going to turn it down? No way.

What if you aren’t into the guy, though? Maybe you’re not single, or maybe he’s just totally unappealing. Is it okay to accept the drink? I’d be tempted, since I currently have no job and no money, but if I’m not interested, I have to decline. I feel like accepting will obligate me to chat, at least for the entire time it takes me to finish that drink. And if I don’t like a guy, I’m just trying to escape the conversation. The last thing I want is to encourage him. The only time I’ll say yes is on the rare occasion when he persistently insists, in which case it’s more awkward to repeatedly refuse. Read More »